• diapers (I have a ton of cloth and a package of tushies for outings or whenever)

• clothes, mostly gowns

• car seat

• sling

• recieving blankets

• bulb syringe

• thermometer

• lambie

• washcloth and towels

• Make sure you have hats for baby's lil bald head.

• natural diaper rash ointment or tea tree oil....

• a nice natural unscented lotion for baby's skin, 'cuz they usually get pretty dry skin after the vernix is gone.

FOR MOM:

• nursing bras

• nursing pads

• nursing pillow (I found this invaluable with my first, she was quite small)

• nursing clothes

• sitz bath

• old cloth diapers that I will use for blood flow

• Try to get some chux pads from the hospital. Those are awesome for putting under you for sleeping while you are still bleeding.

• Have some food made in the freezer so you and your dh don't have to cook for a few days at least.... or send him for takeout :>.

• One thing which will supercede  all others - AFTEREASE tincture